How does one succeed in life?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Ask yourself:

Who is/was the genuinely toughest actor in Hollywood movies?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Making more friends is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Every time I brush my hair when it’s dry it poofs up like a poof ball. But if I don’t brush it looks tangled and messy. I know I have some sort of curl or wavy hair, ive tried gels to define curls but it makes my hair frizzy and messy. What do I do?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What I need from you?

Does not procrastinate.

Why are so many young teenage boys misogynistic? Where do they get these attitudes from?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

I think that being gay is wrong, but I treat gay people respectfully like any other person. Is it homophobic? Or offensive in any kind of way? Aren’t disagreement and discrimination two different things?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What was your biggest culture shock going to Europe?

That's it for today.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Which movies have the best endings?

Hangs out with loser friends.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Is the Donald Trump Bible any different from a regular Bible? Has Trump altered its contents?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Procrastinates a lot.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Do not set goals—set systems.

What are "demonic attacks" and how can one tell when they're happening to them, or someone else? How would one go about dealing with it?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.